Neil Cox Hypnotherapy, Cornwall

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  • Mental health awareness

    Mental health awareness

    Mental health is a crucial component of our overall well-being

    But it often gets overlooked or ignored due to stigma or a lack of understanding. Mental health disorders can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background. Mental health awareness is essential to ensure that people receive the help they need and that mental health issues are addressed.

    Stress is one of the most significant contributors to poor mental health, and it is a common experience in our fast-paced modern society. Stress can be caused by various factors, including work pressure, financial worries, relationship problems, health issues, and life transitions. These stressors can cause significant disruptions in our daily lives and negatively impact our mental and physical health.

    The effects of stress can be physical, emotional, and behavioural. Stress can cause headaches, muscle tension, stomach problems, insomnia, irritability, mood swings, anxiety, depression, and other health problems. When stress is left unaddressed, it can lead to burnout, breakdown, and other serious mental health issues.

    Hypnotherapy is one of the many approaches that can help people overcome stress and other mental health challenges. It is a form of therapy that uses hypnosis to induce a trance-like state in the client. During this state, the conscious mind is bypassed, and the subconscious mind is accessed. This allows for the exploration of negative thought patterns and behaviours that contribute to stress and other mental health issues.

    Hypnotherapy is a safe and non-invasive therapy that can be used alongside other forms of treatment, such as medication and talk therapy. It can also be used as a standalone therapy for people who prefer a more natural and holistic approach to mental health. The benefits of hypnotherapy are numerous, and it has been shown to be an effective treatment for various mental health issues.

    In addition to hypnotherapy, there are many other ways to manage stress and improve mental health. Exercise, meditation, deep breathing, and yoga are all effective strategies for reducing stress and promoting relaxation. It is also essential to maintain a healthy diet, get enough sleep, and engage in activities that bring joy and meaning to our lives.

    During Mental Health Awareness Week, it is crucial to remember that mental health is just as important as physical health, and seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. If you are experiencing stress or other mental health issues, consider reaching out to a qualified hypnotherapist for support. With the right treatment and support, you can overcome stress and other mental health challenges and live a happier, healthier life.

    It is also essential to promote mental health awareness and reduce stigma surrounding mental health. This can be done by starting conversations about mental health, educating people about mental health issues and their treatment, and supporting mental health initiatives. Mental health is a fundamental aspect of our well-being, and it is our responsibility to ensure that it receives the attention and resources it deserves.

    In conclusion, mental health awareness is crucial in promoting overall well-being and addressing mental health issues. Stress is a significant contributor to poor mental health, and hypnotherapy is one of the many approaches that can help people overcome stress and other mental health challenges. It is important to remember that mental health is just as important as physical health, and seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. By promoting mental health awareness and reducing stigma surrounding mental health, we can ensure that everyone has access to the help and resources they need to live a happy and healthy life.

  • Old Stuff Day. Declutter Your Mind

    Old Stuff Day. Declutter Your Mind

    The Importance of Decluttering Your Mind for Positive Thinking

    March celebrated an interesting awareness day – Old Stuff Day. The purpose of this day is to focus on sorting, sifting, organising, and de-cluttering our physical environments. However, have you ever considered the importance of de-cluttering our minds for positive thinking? In this article, we will discuss the significance of de-cluttering our minds and provide tips on how to do it effectively.

    The Power of Our Thoughts

    Our thoughts have the power to shape our lives. Did you know that the average human brain thinks around 70,000 thoughts a day? Our thoughts can be neutral, optimistic, or pessimistic. Recognizing our default patterns of thinking is crucial to achieving positive thinking.

    The Brain: Primitive and Intellectual Parts

    Our brain is divided into two parts – the emotionally primitive part and the logical intellectual part. The primitive part of the brain, which is responsible for keeping us safe and alive, is always negative to ensure our protection. However, if negative thoughts linger in this part of our brain, they can cloud our optimism and better judgment.

    We need to learn to live our lives and manage our thoughts from the intellectual part of our brain, which allows us to see the positive aspects of ourselves and our environment. This helps us navigate our way through life with a solution-focused and relaxed approach.

    The Importance of Positive Thinking

    Positive thinking is crucial for de-cluttering your mind and building positive skills that are valuable in all areas of your life. It’s not just a soft and fluffy feel-good term. Studies have shown that positive thinking can improve our physical health, reduce stress levels, and increase our overall well-being.

    How to Switch to Positive Thinking

    To switch from pessimism to optimism and solution-focused thinking, we need to recognise which part of the brain our thoughts are being filtered through. Solution Focused Hypnotherapy teaches us how to identify our thought processes and find our own way into our intellectual minds by de-cluttering our thoughts and relaxing.

    We can also practice positive affirmations and gratitude, which help to rewire our brain to focus on the good things in our lives and become more optimistic. Positive thinking exercises, such as writing down three things we are grateful for each day, can help to shift our focus to the positive aspects of our lives.

    The Benefits of Decluttering Your Mind

    Decluttering our minds has numerous benefits. When we have too many thoughts, worries, and anxieties crowding our mind, it can be difficult to focus on the present moment and find solutions to problems. By de-cluttering our minds, we can improve our concentration, reduce stress and anxiety, and boost our creativity.

    Decluttering our minds can also improve our relationships with others. When we’re overwhelmed with negative thoughts, we may become irritable, short-tempered, and difficult to be around. By clearing our minds of negative thoughts and focusing on positive thinking, we can become more patient, empathetic, and compassionate towards others.

    How to Declutter Your Mind

    There are several effective methods to de-clutter your mind. One popular method is through mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness meditation involves paying attention to the present moment and letting go of distracting thoughts. By practicing mindfulness regularly, we can train our minds to focus on the present moment and let go of negative thoughts and worries.

    Another effective method is through journaling. Writing down our thoughts and feelings can help us to identify negative thought patterns and work towards shifting our focus to positive thinking. We can also use journaling as a tool to practice gratitude, by writing down the things we are thankful for each day.

    Conclusion

    De-cluttering our minds is essential for positive thinking and overall well-being. By recognising our default patterns of thinking, practicing positive affirmations and gratitude, and using effective methods such as mindfulness meditation and journaling, we can shift our focus to positive thinking and improve our mental health. Decluttering our minds can also improve our relationships with others and boost our creativity.

    It’s important to make decluttering our minds a regular practice. Just like we clean our physical environments, we need to regularly clear our minds of negative thoughts and worries. By doing so, we can improve our overall quality of life and achieve a greater sense of well-being.

    In conclusion, Old Stuff Day may have been about decluttering our physical environments, but the importance of decluttering our minds for positive thinking cannot be overlooked. By recognising our thought patterns, practicing positive thinking, and using effective methods to declutter our minds, we can improve our mental health, relationships, and overall well-being.

  • The Benefits of Therapy

    The Benefits of Therapy

    Improving Relationships, Increasing Motivation, and More

    Many people associate therapy with something being wrong with them or not being in the right state of mind. However, therapy is not just for those who are struggling. It is a scientifically proven technique that it can provide benefits in many areas of our lives, including improving relationships, increasing motivation and career satisfaction, managing emotions, and developing self-compassion.

    Improving Relationships

    For most people, relationships are a main thing. We give importance to our social relationships, particularly the more personal ones like our family, friendships, and marriage. But in every type of relationship, there is always a rough spot. As they say, there’s no ‘perfect relationship’.

    Even those who have been together for many, many years now also go through ups and downs as well. Therapists are expert relaters, and are highly skilled at treating all varieties of relational problems. Whether it’s about marriage, parenting, conflicts between siblings, work relationships, or friendships – they got you covered. While medication can treat symptoms of depression which developed from unhealthy relationships, it doesn’t address the root cause. Medications can’t teach you how to be in a relationship. Therapy can.

    Establishing Relationships

    Just because you are single, living alone, or lack friends doesn’t mean you can no longer benefit from therapy. While social media enhances communication and connection, they don’t teach us or prepare us towards healthy relationships. There are couples who are very expressive about their feelings over the phone or through chats, but find it hard to say what they feel in person. Therapy allows for an intimacy workout that enhances connection and communication. It helps us express our emotions better, in a way that our partners (or other people) would understand.

    Increasing Motivation and Career Satisfaction

    Each year, a lot of people lose their job and can’t find another. Some do find a job but in the long run, become unhappy of it. Some do struggle with the demoralising issue of job loss and stressful pressure of job hunting. In times like this, therapy can help evaluate what exactly are the things people are concerned about in their careers. At the same time, therapy is a great venue to learn how to motivate yourself more to do better at work even if it’s not really in line with your passion, by helping you figure out what you like most of your job (like friendships, considerate bosses, etc.).

    Managing Emotions

    Being able to manage your emotions is one of the best skills that can help you achieve your goals and succeed in life. Furthermore, unexpressed emotions can backfire, as it makes you hold grudges, refuse help and support, and deal with your problems alone. Therapy can help you decipher emotions and deal with deeper issues. Emotional management makes it possible for you to reach properly on most types of situations, even those that are really nerve-whacking. Therapists are skilled at helping people become more in control of their emotions.

    Developing Self-Compassion

    Seeking therapy is a safe place to explore and get to know yourself better. If you are hindered by old habits, relationship conflicts, or past hurts that weigh you down, getting help from a professional counselor can be a big help. Therapy can help you develop self-compassion and enhance the quality of your life, from your relationships to your career and everything in between.

    Conclusion

    Therapy is not just about treating mental or emotional problems. It can also help you make things better and improve areas of your life. Whether you are going through a difficult time or simply want to be more connected to your inner self, therapy is worth a try. Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

  • Goals when you want something

    Goals when you want something

    When you want something, the whole universe conspires.

    When you think about the bills you couldn’t pay, the job you could lose, the sacrifices you have to make, the frustrations in the past etc, you are focusing yourself on what you do not want, which makes it more difficult for you to achieve your goals.

    Often, we are too concerned of not getting the things we want that we tend to shift our thoughts, action and attention to the things we do not want. Many times, our minds are filled with worries and negative beliefs which are too overpowering that we slowly lose track of our goals – things we really want.

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    Focusing on what you want

    The problem is that most of us do not know what we truly want. We tend to focus on things that give us short-term happiness and enjoyment. The key is finding those that have a significant impact on the long-lasting success in our personal lives, relationships and careers. Once you are able to determine what these things are, you start to live your life on purpose. You become inspired, motivated and willing to face whatever kind of challenges and trials that may come your way. You don’t waste time, money and energy because you only care about things that matter.

    And when you really want something, the entire universe conspires to make it happen. That’s the law of attraction. You eliminate the negative beliefs that divert your attention to things you don’t want. These include fear, anger, frustration, anxiety, and worry. Who wants to experience all these? Nobody. But why is it that many people feel these negative emotions?

    Defining your goals

    Thinking on what you do not want does not give you any clue whatsoever on the things you want. Take time to brush away the worries you have and focus your mind on the things you want to achieve in your life, whether it is a fairytale-like love life, an executive post in a prestigious company, or a comfortable life. Write them down. Draw pictures if necessary. Create visual things that will remind you of your goals. If you have many of them, group them according to your priorities. It’s unlikely that you’ll get them all at once. It takes time and perseverance.

    Focusing on your needs

    Who doesn’t want to have huge savings in their bank accounts, a beautiful mansion, a luxury car, and all that wealth? Just by imagining these things, we could already feel some sort of excitement and joy. But in the long run, they become meaningless. Many scientific studies have shown that it is not the material things that give us long lasting happiness. Rather, achieving balance in the major areas of life – physical, emotional, spiritual and interpersonal. By making sure that your needs in all these aspects are met, you could live a life that is full of happiness.

  • Feel tired and overworked?

    Feel tired and overworked?

    Overworked?

    You have probably felt it many times – the feeling that you have so many things to do but very little time to do them. And it feels bad, utterly tiring and demotivating. It feels like you have been doing a lot but accomplishing very little.

    Overextending at work or any other area of your life can backfire and cause unhappiness. You may be wondering why you’ve come to hate the job you once loved and dreamed of, or take for granted the person you loved the most. If things are going out of balance, don’t panic. In most cases, you only need to take a pause to unwind, recharge and regain your strength, and get back on track again.

    But how do you know that you already need a pause?

    Business stress probably felt it many times

    The following are the warning signs that you definitely need a break. And what you can do about it.

    You complain that there’s only 24 hours in a day.

    You know you can never change this fact but you keep on complaining and wishing it’s not true. If you are running around like a headless chicken, you are overextended. Being a superhuman can’t help you accomplish more things. When you put too much on your plate, you increase the chance of having fewer goals to accomplish, which simply makes you more frustrated and fed up. Be realistic with your daily targets, as well as your long-term goals. Don’t try to juggle things all at the same time. When making a to-do list, try prioritising the most important ones so even if you weren’t able to finish the rest, you can still feel a sense of accomplishment.

    You used to love your job. Now, you loathe it.

    Do you remember your first weeks, months and years in your job? There was probably an excitement, joy and enthusiasm. You were probably at your most productive self. But then things start changing. You get burnt out easily. You accomplish less despite your efforts. You are not happy with your performance at work. And you always wish it’s already weekend. If this sounds familiar to you, it is a sign that you are overworked and definitely need a break – a good one. If it’s possible, go ask for some holiday time off. A few days of out-of-work experience can do wonders for your productivity and performance at work. During your rest days, try to make the most out of them. Avoid checking work emails, talking about work issues, and anything else that has to do with work. Make these days what they are intended for – rest.

    You don’t have a social life.

    If you’re always missing your children’s events, always have an excuse for your friends’ invites and your family and colleagues have no idea where you are – your need for a break is long overdue. Lack of social life is one of the top five regrets of the dying. So if you don’t want this to happen to you, take a pause from your busy life and spend more quality time with your loved ones. They can add more joy to your life and make work easier and the challenges more bearable. You need that sense of belongingness. You need to feel that there are people behind you – praying and wishing that you are doing well.

    You haven’t seen a gym in months.

    You used to go to the gym several days a week – sweating out all the tension, stress and worries. Now, you hardly think of working out. You don’t even consider exercising at home, or taking a morning jog or walk. You think 30 minutes of physical activity could be 30 minutes of working time so you just tell yourself “I’ll just work out next week”, but it never really happens. Fitness and health should be at the top of your priorities. You can’t be productive at work and perform at your best when you are physically unfit. You really don’t have to hit the gym to stay physically active. Jogging in place for several minutes, taking the stairs instead of the lift, riding a bike instead of a car on your way to work (or parking a few meters away from your workplace), dancing, or downloading some home workout videos to follow are simple ways to stay physically active without putting much time or effort.

    You’re S-T-R-E-S-S-E-D.

    Does stress never leave you? Are you always feeling tired and lacking in energy? Are you experiencing sleepless nights? Do you drink more coffee than you used to? Do you suffer from unexplained pain such as low back pain, and fatigue? Chances are – you are stressed. Stress can be your worst enemy. It is a condition that when not taken seriously, can lead to a poor health outcome. Chronic stress has been widely linked to a host of health problems, such as heart disease, cancer, diabetes, and obesity. Feeling stressed is a big warning sign that you need a break. It means you need to act on it now before something else – an irreversible damage – comes around.

    You fear change.

    Do you hate change? They say nothing is constant in this world but change. However, if you are continually trying to be in charge of everything without allowing room for change, you could be missing a lot of opportunities that could make you extra happier. If there’s an opportunity you are thinking about, don’t hesitate to welcome it. Life really is short. Pause and take a break. This helps you find clarity and make better choices.

    It’s time for a break if you can check off one of these items. But taking a pause doesn’t mean quitting your job or pushing away things or people that stress you out. It doesn’t always call for a long holiday. You simply have to slow down. How? The key is to simply know what works best for you. If you can’t get a week-long rest period, try to think of a daily routine that allows yourself to just “be”. At this moment, avoid overthinking about anything, and remember you are just there, being.

    Consider strolling in the park, playing with your pet, or spending time alone in a nice place (your garden) and letting nature comfort your troubled mind as you breathe in and out. Dedicate time to do this activity, even if it’s just five minutes a day. And as you do it, make sure your phone or computer is not with you. You want to disconnect, at least for the time being. Consider taking a pause. You’ll realise that life gets so much better when you are able to take a pause and slow down.

  • Reducing Business Stress

    Reducing Business Stress

    Reducing Business Stress with Solution Focused Hypnotherapy

    Running a business can be incredibly stressful, and with the fast pace of modern life, it’s no wonder that more and more business owners are struggling with anxiety, depression, and burnout. But while stress is an inevitable part of running a business, it’s important to manage it effectively to avoid negative impacts on both your mental and physical health, as well as on the success of your business.

    In this article, we’ll discuss the causes and effects of business stress, and explore the role of Solution Focused Hypnotherapy in helping business owners to manage stress and achieve their goals.

    Causes of Business Stress

    There are many causes of stress in the business world, including financial pressures, long working hours, staff management, competition, and the pressure to constantly innovate and adapt to changing market conditions. Additionally, many business owners struggle with feelings of isolation and loneliness, as they often bear the weight of responsibility for their company alone.

    Effects of Business Stress

    The effects of business stress can be far-reaching and damaging, affecting not only the business owner but also their employees, family, and personal life. Common symptoms of stress include anxiety, depression, fatigue, sleep disturbances, and poor concentration. In the long term, chronic stress can lead to more serious health problems such as high blood pressure, heart disease, and stroke.

    Solution Focused Hypnotherapy for Business Stress

    Solution Focused Hypnotherapy is a highly effective form of therapy that helps clients to focus on their desired future outcomes rather than dwelling on past problems. It is a solution-focused and goal-oriented therapy that helps clients to identify and achieve their goals through positive thinking and visualisation techniques.

    By using Solution Focused Hypnotherapy, business owners can learn to manage their stress effectively, improve their confidence and motivation, and develop a more positive outlook on their work and personal life. Additionally, hypnotherapy can help business owners to improve their sleep quality, reduce anxiety and depression, and enhance their overall sense of wellbeing.

    Conclusion

    If you’re a business owner struggling with stress and anxiety, it’s important to take steps to manage your symptoms effectively. Solution Focused Hypnotherapy is a highly effective therapy that can help you to overcome your stress and achieve your goals. By focusing on positive outcomes and visualisation techniques, you can learn to manage your stress more effectively, and enjoy a happier, more fulfilling life both inside and outside of your business.