Hypnotherapy to stop smoking

Are you tired of the endless cycle of trying to quit smoking, only to find yourself back where you started? Whether you’re smoking traditional cigarettes or roll-ups, you’ve probably tried nicotine patches, gum, or relied on willpower alone, but nothing seems to make a lasting difference. If that sounds familiar, solution-focused hypnotherapy could be the answer you’ve been looking for. My approach is all about understanding you as an individual and tailoring the process to suit your needs, so you can break free from smoking, regardless of whether you smoke cigarettes or roll-ups.

What is Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy?

Solution-focused hypnotherapy is a modern, dynamic approach to overcoming smoking addiction. Unlike traditional hypnotherapy, which might focus on past experiences or the problems you’re facing, solution-focused hypnotherapy is all about finding practical, forward-looking solutions. The idea is that by making changes to your thoughts and beliefs, you can change your behaviours and habits—such as smoking.

In my sessions, I don’t dwell on the past or focus on any negative experiences. Instead, we’ll look at the future and work together to visualise your life without cigarettes or roll-ups. By doing this, I help you build the confidence, motivation, and clarity you need to become a non-smoker, once and for all.

How Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy Helps You Quit Smoking

What makes solution-focused hypnotherapy particularly effective is that it addresses the root causes of smoking, not just the symptoms. Many smoking cessation methods only help manage cravings or withdrawal, but they don’t explore why you smoke in the first place. Through my process, you’ll gain a deeper understanding of the emotional and psychological triggers behind your smoking habit, whether you’re using traditional cigarettes or roll-ups.

During our sessions, I’ll help you uncover these triggers—whether it’s stress, boredom, or emotional comfort—and teach you strategies to cope with them in healthier, more effective ways. Smoking, whether it’s cigarettes or roll-ups, is often an automatic behaviour, something that’s deeply embedded in your subconscious. By working with your subconscious mind, I can help you reprogramme these automatic habits and replace them with new, healthier choices.

What to Expect from My Process

When you work with me to quit smoking, whether it’s cigarettes or roll-ups, you’ll undergo a two-step process that ensures we set you up for long-term success. It’s not just about quitting in the short term; we’ll be working together to ensure you stay smoke-free for life.

Step 1: Initial Consultation

Our journey begins with an initial consultation, which usually lasts around 75 minutes. During this session, I’ll take the time to gather key information about your smoking habits, the reasons you smoke, and the triggers that lead to your cravings. We’ll explore when and why you tend to reach for a cigarette or roll-up, so we can begin to understand the patterns that keep you stuck.

This session is not only about gathering information but also about giving you clarity. Many clients are surprised to realise how their emotional or psychological state connects with their smoking habit. By understanding the ‘why’ behind your addiction, you’ll be empowered to make lasting changes. This consultation is also a chance for us to build rapport and trust, which is essential for the success of the treatment.

Step 2: The Stop Smoking Session

After our consultation, I’ll give you some time—usually about a week—to reflect on the insights we’ve gained and prepare for the next session. This gap allows you to begin the process of change and also gives me time to create a personalised plan specifically for you.

When we meet for the actual stop-smoking session, I’ll guide you into a relaxed state of hypnosis. This is not what you might see in movies; it’s a calm, focused state where your mind is open to positive suggestions. In this state, we’ll work together to visualise a future where you’re completely free from smoking—whether it’s cigarettes, roll-ups, or both. These visualisations are incredibly powerful, as they allow your mind to see you as a non-smoker, reinforcing the belief that quitting is not only possible but entirely within your reach.

During this session, I’ll help you reprogramme the triggers and automatic responses that lead to smoking. Together, we’ll replace those patterns with healthier alternatives. By working on your subconscious mind, we aim to break the cycle of addiction and create lasting change.

Why Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy is Different

Many smoking cessation methods focus only on quitting in the short term. Nicotine replacement therapies (NRT), medications, or even e-cigarettes might provide some temporary relief, but they don’t address the deeper, emotional roots of smoking. That’s where solution-focused hypnotherapy is different.

Through this method, I focus on addressing the psychological triggers behind smoking, regardless of whether you smoke cigarettes or roll-ups. It’s not just about coping with cravings; it’s about changing your mindset and your automatic behaviours. Once we’ve made these changes at the subconscious level, you’re much more likely to stay smoke-free for the long term.

I don’t rely on medications or artificial substitutes. Instead, I use the power of your own mind to create lasting change. It’s a natural, holistic approach that can provide you with permanent freedom from smoking.

The Benefits of Solution-Focused Hypnotherapy for Smoking Cessation

Solution-focused hypnotherapy has a number of benefits that set it apart from other smoking cessation methods:

  • No Side Effects: Unlike nicotine replacement therapies or medications, solution-focused hypnotherapy is a natural method with no harmful side effects. It works with your mind, not chemicals.
  • Long-Term Success: This approach targets the root causes of smoking addiction, whether you’re using cigarettes or roll-ups, which makes it more likely you’ll stay smoke-free for good. We’re not just aiming for temporary cessation; we’re aiming for permanent change.
  • Personalised Treatment: I tailor each session to your specific needs. I take into account your triggers, emotional patterns, and personal goals, so the treatment is completely suited to you.
  • Reprogramming Your Subconscious Mind: Smoking is often an ingrained, automatic habit. Hypnotherapy allows me to work with your subconscious mind to break that cycle and replace unhealthy habits with healthier choices.
  • Increased Confidence and Motivation: Through visualisation and positive suggestions, I help you build the motivation and confidence you need to stay smoke-free, even when faced with challenges.

Additional Tips for Quitting Smoking

While solution-focused hypnotherapy provides the tools to quit smoking for good, there are a few other strategies you can incorporate into your journey to make it easier:

  1. Identify and Avoid Triggers: Be mindful of the situations that prompt you to smoke. Whether it’s stress, social situations, or specific routines, identifying and avoiding these triggers will help reduce cravings.
  2. Exercise Regularly: Physical activity is a great way to manage stress and distract yourself from cravings. It also releases endorphins, which can boost your mood and help you stay focused on your goal.
  3. Eat Well and Stay Hydrated: Eating nutritious foods and drinking plenty of water can help curb cravings and support your body as it adjusts to life without nicotine.
  4. Get Support: Quitting smoking can be challenging, so it’s important to have a strong support system. Share your goal with friends and family, or join a group where others are also working towards quitting.
  5. Celebrate Your Progress: Every day you go without smoking is a victory. Celebrate your progress, no matter how small, and keep rewarding yourself for staying smoke-free.

The E-Cigarette and Vaping Dilemma

While some people turn to e-cigarettes or vaping as an alternative to traditional smoking, I do not recommend these methods. Although they may help reduce nicotine intake, they don’t address the root cause of smoking and can lead to continued dependence. The goal is to quit smoking altogether, and for this reason, I don’t believe that vaping is a viable long-term solution. To find out more about why I don’t recommend vaping, please watch my informative video on the subject.

NHS Smokefree Support: Helping You Achieve a Smoke-Free Life

If you’re ready to quit smoking for good, NHS Smokefree is a fantastic resource offering expert support and advice. Whether you need guidance or motivation, their free services can help you stay on track with your goal.

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Ready to Start Your Journey?

If you’re ready to quit smoking for good and reclaim your health, I’m here to help. With my solution-focused hypnotherapy approach, we’ll work together to address the underlying causes of your addiction, reprogramme your subconscious mind, and set you on the path to a smoke-free life.

Don’t wait any longer. Book your initial consultation today and start your journey to a healthier, smoke-free future.

Book Your Appointment Now and Take the First Step Towards a Smoke-Free Life!

Emetophobia

Living with the Fear of Vomiting: How Hypnotherapy Can Help Reclaim Your Life

Fear of vomiting, or emetophobia, can be a debilitating condition that significantly impacts a person’s quality of life. It can make everyday activities like eating out, travelling, or even socialising with friends seem overwhelming. You might find yourself constantly worrying about feeling sick, or even avoiding situations that might trigger a vomiting episode. This can lead to social isolation, dietary restrictions, and significant anxiety and distress.

Understanding the Roots of Emetophobia

Emetophobia often stems from a traumatic or stressful experience associated with vomiting, but it’s not always a straightforward link. Here are some factors that can contribute to the development of this fear:

  • Traumatic Experiences:
    • Witnessing someone else vomiting during a frightening event: This can include witnessing a car accident, a medical emergency, or even a violent incident where vomiting occurs. The association between vomiting and the frightening event can become deeply ingrained in the mind.
    • Experiencing severe vomiting during illness: Illnesses such as food poisoning, influenza, or gastroenteritis can cause severe vomiting and dehydration, leading to a traumatic experience that can trigger emetophobia.
    • Undergoing a medical procedure that involves vomiting: Medical procedures such as surgery, chemotherapy, or anaesthesia can sometimes cause nausea and vomiting, leading to a fear of these procedures and the associated side effects.
  • Cognitive Distortions: Cognitive distortions are negative thought patterns that can contribute to and maintain emetophobia. Some common cognitive distortions include:
    • Catastrophising: Exaggerating the potential consequences of vomiting. For example, someone with emetophobia might fear that vomiting will lead to serious health problems, social embarrassment, or even death.
    • All-or-nothing thinking: Believing that if you vomit once, you will continue to vomit uncontrollably.
    • Overgeneralisation: Assuming that if you vomit in one situation, you will vomit in all similar situations. For example, if you vomit on a plane, you might fear vomiting on all forms of transportation.
    • Mental Filtering: Focusing solely on negative thoughts and ignoring positive experiences. For example, a person with emetophobia might dwell on past vomiting episodes while ignoring instances where they have eaten without incident.
  • Learned Behaviour:
    • Observing the anxious behaviour of others around vomiting: If you witness others exhibiting extreme anxiety or fear around vomiting, you may unconsciously learn and adopt these behaviours yourself.
    • Negative media portrayals: Media portrayals of vomiting, particularly in films and television, can often be exaggerated and sensationalised, contributing to negative associations and increased fear.

Common Myths and Misconceptions About Vomiting

Many misconceptions about vomiting can contribute to and maintain emetophobia. Some common myths include:

  • Vomiting is always a sign of serious illness: While vomiting can sometimes be a symptom of illness, it can also occur for other reasons, such as overeating, food poisoning, or motion sickness.
  • Vomiting is contagious: Vomiting is not contagious. It is caused by various factors, including infections, food poisoning, and motion sickness.
  • You can “catch” vomiting from someone else: You cannot “catch” vomiting from someone else.

Challenging These Misconceptions

It’s crucial to challenge these misconceptions and develop a more realistic understanding of vomiting. Vomiting is a natural bodily function that helps your body remove harmful substances. While it’s not a pleasant experience, it’s usually not a serious health concern.

How Hypnotherapy Can Help

Hypnotherapy can be a powerful tool in helping you overcome emetophobia and reclaim your life. Through hypnosis, we can work together to:

  • Understand the Root of Your Fear: We’ll delve deeper into the origins of your emetophobia, exploring not only the specific experiences that triggered your fear, but also the underlying cognitive distortions and learned behaviours that are contributing to your anxiety.
  • Challenge Negative Thoughts: Gently challenge the negative thoughts and beliefs that are keeping you stuck. For example, we can explore the idea that vomiting is a natural bodily function, and that the time spent vomiting in your lifetime is actually quite insignificant. We can also address cognitive distortions like catastrophising by helping you develop more realistic and balanced perspectives.
  • Develop Coping Strategies: Learn relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, progressive muscle relaxation, and mindfulness meditation to manage anxiety in situations that trigger your fear. Also explore grounding techniques to help you stay present in the moment and reduce overwhelming thoughts. For example, you can focus on the sensations in your body, such as the feeling of your feet on the ground or the sound of your breath.
  • Break the Fear-Vomiting Association: Through guided imagery and other hypnotic techniques, we can gradually desensitise you to the thought of vomiting. For example, we might use guided imagery to help you visualise yourself calmly and confidently navigating a situation that typically triggers your anxiety, such as eating in a restaurant or travelling by plane.

Hypnotherapy Techniques:

  • Directly working with the subconscious: We can use techniques to work with and alongside the subconscious to help it find the part that’s been causing the behaviour and then allow it create a new healthier way to cope.
  • Guided Imagery: We can use guided imagery to help you visualise yourself in calm and peaceful settings, gradually introducing the thought of vomiting in a controlled and supportive environment.
  • Cognitive Restructuring: We can work together to identify and challenge negative thoughts and beliefs about vomiting, replacing them with more realistic and positive perspectives.
  • Relaxation Techniques: You’ll learn relaxation techniques to manage anxiety and reduce the physical symptoms of fear, such as rapid heartbeat and shallow breathing.

Self-Care Tips for Managing Emetophobia

In addition to hypnotherapy, incorporating self-care practices into your daily routine can significantly improve your overall well-being and reduce anxiety. Some helpful self-care tips include:

  • Prioritise physical health:
    • Maintain a healthy diet and exercise regularly.
    • Ensure you’re getting enough sleep.
    • Practice good hygiene, such as frequent handwashing.
  • Engage in stress-reducing activities:
    • Practice relaxation techniques such as yoga, tai chi, or meditation.
    • Spend time in nature.
    • Engage in hobbies and activities that you enjoy.
  • Build a strong support system:
    • Connect with friends, family, or a support group for individuals with anxiety disorders.
    • Talk to a therapist or counsellor about your concerns.

When to Seek Professional Help

If your emetophobia is significantly impacting your daily life and causing you significant distress, it’s important to seek professional help. A therapist or counsellor can provide you with support and guidance in overcoming your fear.

Conclusion

Emetophobia can be a challenging condition, but it’s important to remember that you’re not alone. With the right support and guidance, you can overcome your fear and reclaim your life. Hypnotherapy can be a valuable tool in helping you understand the root of your fear, challenge negative thoughts, and develop coping strategies for managing anxiety.

If you’re ready to take the first step towards overcoming emetophobia, please don’t hesitate to contact me for a consultation.

Disclaimer: This blog post is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice.

Alcohol Addiction

Breaking Free from Alcohol Addiction: The Power of Solution Focused Hypnotherapy

Alcohol addiction, a serious and prevalent issue, affects millions across the UK. It can wreak havoc on physical and mental health, relationships, and careers. While overcoming alcohol dependence can be a formidable challenge, effective treatment options exist, including Solution Focused Hypnotherapy (SFH).

Alcohol addiction, also known as alcoholism, is a chronic and relapsing brain disease characterised by compulsive alcohol use, loss of control over drinking, and negative emotional and behavioural consequences.

Several factors can contribute to the development of alcohol addiction. Genetic predisposition plays a significant role, with a family history of alcoholism increasing the risk. Environmental factors, such as exposure to alcohol during adolescence, peer pressure, easy access to alcohol, and stressful life events, can also contribute. Moreover, co-occurring mental health conditions, such as depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), often complicate the picture.

Chronic alcohol use alters brain chemistry, impacting reward pathways and leading to cravings and dependence. This neurobiological impact further reinforces the addictive cycle.

The consequences of alcohol addiction can be severe and far-reaching. Physical health problems, such as liver disease (cirrhosis), heart disease, pancreatitis, a weakened immune system, and an increased risk of certain cancers, are common.

Mental health is also significantly impacted, with depression, anxiety, an increased risk of suicide, and cognitive impairment being prevalent among individuals with alcohol addiction.

Social and relationship problems are inevitable, with family conflict, job loss, financial difficulties, and legal problems often arising.

Furthermore, alcohol addiction significantly increases the risk of accidents, injuries, and violence, including drunk driving.

Breaking free from the grip of alcohol requires a multi-faceted approach. Solution Focused Hypnotherapy offers a unique and promising avenue for recovery.

Unlike traditional therapies that may delve into the past or analyse underlying causes, SFH focuses on identifying and achieving desired outcomes. This client-centred approach empowers individuals to take control of their recovery journey.

SFH therapists work collaboratively with clients to set specific, achievable goals related to alcohol use. These goals might include reducing consumption, achieving abstinence, and improving overall well-being.

Hypnosis plays a crucial role in the SFH process. By guiding clients into a relaxed state of focused attention, hypnosis allows them to access their subconscious mind.

This access is invaluable, as deeply ingrained beliefs and behaviours related to alcohol use often reside within the subconscious.

Through carefully crafted suggestions and guided imagery, SFH helps clients to:

  • Identify and break free from negative thought patterns, cravings, and behaviours associated with alcohol addiction.
  • Build self-efficacy and develop the confidence to make lasting positive changes.
  • Develop effective coping strategies for stress, anxiety, and other triggers that may lead to relapse.
  • Enhance motivation and commitment to recovery by helping clients visualise a future free from alcohol addiction and experience the positive emotions associated with achieving their goals.

The SFH process typically involves an initial assessment to understand the client’s alcohol use patterns, identify their goals, and discuss treatment expectations.

Hypnosis sessions are then conducted, during which the therapist provides personalised suggestions to help clients reduce cravings, build self-confidence, and develop healthy coping mechanisms.

Between sessions, clients are encouraged to practise relaxation techniques, mindfulness exercises, and other self-care strategies to reinforce the therapeutic effects.

The treatment plan is regularly reviewed and adjusted as needed to ensure ongoing progress and address any challenges that may arise.

The benefits of SFH for alcohol addiction are numerous.

It can significantly reduce alcohol cravings, making it easier for clients to resist temptation and maintain abstinence.

SFH helps clients develop greater self-control over their alcohol use and resist the urge to relapse.

Furthermore, it enhances emotional regulation, enabling clients to develop healthier ways to cope with stress, anxiety, and other emotions that may trigger alcohol use.

By boosting self-esteem and confidence, SFH empowers clients to make lasting positive changes and take control of their lives.

Improved relationships are another significant benefit, as reducing the negative impact of alcohol addiction on relationships allows clients to rebuild stronger, healthier connections with loved ones.

While SFH is a valuable tool in the treatment of alcohol addiction, it is often most effective when used in conjunction with other therapies, such as counselling, medication-assisted treatment, and support groups like Alcoholics Anonymous.

Breaking free from alcohol addiction can be a challenging journey, but with the right support and treatment options, it is undoubtedly possible.

If you or someone you know is struggling with alcohol addiction, seeking professional help is crucial.

Finding a qualified and experienced hypnotherapist who specialises in treating alcohol addiction is essential.

Consider factors such as the hypnotherapist’s credentials and experience, their therapeutic approach, and your personal comfort level when making your decision.

Remember, you are not alone. With the right support and a commitment to recovery, you can break free from the grip of alcohol addiction and build a healthier, happier future.

The Snoozeband: The Fun Way to Drift Off and Tune In

Let’s face it: relaxation in today’s world feels like finding a unicorn wearing a party hat. But what if I told you there’s a gadget out there that can make hypnotherapy, sleep, and even your nightly wind-down routine not just effective but… dare I say it… fun? Enter the Snoozeband, a delightfully clever combination of wireless headphones and a soft headband that screams, “Why haven’t you tried me yet?”

What Exactly Is the Snoozeband?

Picture this: you’re lying in bed, trying to drift off while wearing earbuds that feel like they’re auditioning for the lead role in Attack of the Ears. Not great, right? Now imagine a soft, comfy headband that doubles as wireless headphones, gently serenading you with your favourite hypnotherapy tracks, calming music, or that one podcast where people whisper about medieval cheese-making (no judgment). That’s the Snoozeband.

This ingenious little device connects via Bluetooth to your gadgets, so you can stream whatever helps you unwind. And the fabric? Oh, it’s like someone took a cloud, taught it yoga, and turned it into a headband. It’s breathable, soft, and so comfy you might forget you’re wearing it—until the calming sounds start lulling you into bliss.

Why It’s a Hypnotherapy Superstar

As someone who guides clients through solution-focused hypnotherapy, I’ve seen the transformative power of relaxation tools. The Snoozeband isn’t just a gadget; it’s like a sidekick to your superpower of unwinding. Here’s how it helps:

  1. Comfort That Wins Awards (If There Were Awards for Comfort): Traditional headphones can pinch, press, or plain old annoy. The Snoozeband? It’s like a hug for your head—but a non-awkward one.
  2. Crystal-Clear Audio: Ever tried listening to hypnotherapy recordings only to be interrupted by the screech of your neighbour’s overenthusiastic parrot? The Snoozeband’s quality sound ensures you’re fully immersed in your session.
  3. Side Sleeper Magic: If you’ve ever tried lying on your side with earbuds, you know it’s a one-way ticket to discomfort-ville. The Snoozeband’s flat speakers mean you can snooze on your side without feeling like you’re lying on a pebble.
  4. Goodbye, Stress; Hello, Calm: Hypnotherapy sessions often involve listening to recordings that help you relax, focus, or sleep better. The Snoozeband turns that process into an indulgence, like treating yourself to an audio spa.
  5. Perfect Travel Buddy: Long-haul flights, noisy train rides, or just avoiding small talk with chatty passengers? The Snoozeband’s got you covered—literally.

Hypnotherapy Meets the Snoozeband

Here’s the thing: during hypnotherapy, I provide clients with a tailored audio recording during the first session. It’s designed to reinforce progress and keep you feeling all those good vibes between appointments. Listening to this recording with the Snoozeband feels like levelling up your relaxation game. Many clients tell me they’ve never looked forward to bedtime more (and no, that’s not just because it’s finally quiet).

Snoozeband in the Wild: Real-Life Scenarios

Let’s get real. Life is messy, loud, and often ridiculous. Here’s how the Snoozeband comes to the rescue in various scenarios:

  • Midnight Battles with Insomnia: You’ve tried counting sheep, but they keep staging an escape. Pop on the Snoozeband with a sleep-focused hypnotherapy track, and suddenly, you’re the shepherd of serenity.
  • Side Sleeper Woes, Be Gone: Sleeping on your side while wearing headphones usually means waking up with a crushed ear or strangled wires. The Snoozeband’s flat speakers let you snooze comfortably—no ear trauma involved.
  • Zen on the Go: Stuck in traffic? On a crowded train? Plug into a relaxing playlist or hypnotherapy session, and you’ll feel like you’re floating above the chaos (figuratively, of course).
  • Escape the Snorer’s Symphony: Sharing a bed with a partner whose snores rival a jackhammer? The Snoozeband lets you tune into calming audio instead of, well, that.
  • Bedtime Just Got Better: Building a calming bedtime routine can work wonders for your sleep. The Snoozeband is like the cherry on top of your relaxation sundae, helping you drift off to dreamland effortlessly.

Science Meets Snoozing: Why It Works

Listening to soothing sounds or hypnotherapy recordings taps into your brain’s alpha wave state—the sweet spot for relaxation and focus. Science even says it can lower cortisol levels (bye, stress!) and promote better sleep. The Snoozeband, with its comfy design and quality sound, helps you get there faster, making relaxation not just achievable but downright enjoyable.

For side sleepers, this is revolutionary. No more wrestling with awkward headphones or lying perfectly still to avoid ear pain. The Snoozeband’s flat speaker design is like a love letter to side sleepers everywhere, making it a game-changer for your bedtime routine.

What People Are Saying (Hint: They Love It)

Don’t just take my word for it—check out these real-life testimonials:

  • “The Snoozeband has saved my ears and my sleep. I’m a side sleeper, and this is the first device I’ve found that doesn’t leave me feeling like I’ve been in a wrestling match with my headphones.”
  • “I’ve used the Snoozeband on planes, trains, and my sofa. It’s like a portable bubble of calm in an otherwise chaotic world.”
  • “Listening to hypnotherapy recordings with the Snoozeband has become my favourite part of the day. It’s like a brain massage—highly recommend!”
  • “Finally, a device that doesn’t make me choose between comfort and sound quality. The Snoozeband is a win-win.”

Final Thoughts (and a Cheeky Recommendation)

While I’m not here to push products, I will share tools that genuinely make life better. If the Snoozeband sounds like something you’d love, you can check it out using my affiliate Snoozeband link. No pressure, just putting it out there for anyone who’s ready to elevate their relaxation game (Affiliate Link – I may earn a small commission if you make a purchase)

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In the meantime, remember: relaxation doesn’t have to be serious business. Whether it’s hypnotherapy, bedtime rituals, or simply tuning out the world for a bit, tools like the Snoozeband help you find your calm—with a side of fun.

Now, if you’ll excuse me, my Snoozeband and I have a very important date with some chill-out music and a comfy pillow.

Panic Attack Prevention Programme

Part 1: What is a panic attack?

Hundreds of thousands of years ago a panic attack was a very useful thing. We led much more physically challenging and dangerous lives then. We didn’t have the sharp teeth or claws that our animal enemies had and so we had to be able to react very quickly to a threat. And in those days there were two simple choices. We could either run or, if desperate enough, we could fight. In this case, a panic attack is called the ‘fight or flight response’. You may well have heard of it.

The Fight or Flight Response

The fight or flight response can be seen as one of the most important parts of our make-up – a highly efficient survival response for dangerous times. Back then, threats were simple and straight forward but often very dangerous – a wild animal, or member of an enemy tribe for instance.

That is why the mind of a human being can trigger a panic attack fast and unconsciously. This is highly important. People who suffer panic attacks often report that “they come from nowhere” and this is an essential part of the fight or flight response.

Faster Than the Speed of Thought!

If you are in a threatening situation and you have to think before getting the hormonal changes associated with the flight or fight response, it may well be too late. Alternatively, you might make the wrong choice, so the unconscious part of our mind takes care of it. And of course, in a survival situation, it is better to respond as if danger is present when it’s not, rather than the other way round. Much safer to err on the side of caution!

This is the part where your digestion, blood pressure and body temperature are controlled and monitored by the brain. These functions generally occur outside of awareness. A panic attack is also controlled largely unconsciously, hence the feeling that they ‘come from nowhere’.

If it is unclear how this relates to a panic attack in a supermarket, or in the street, then soon this will become clear. That’s the evolutionary reasons for panic, but what is actually happening to the body during a panic attack? Why does it feel so strange?

What happens during a panic attack?

Well, several things happen as your body alters its priorities from long term survival to emergency short term survival. In response to the release of hormones such as adrenaline, your blood pressure increases and breathing speeds up preparing you for muscular effort.

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Your legs may shake as they are prepared for running; your hands may shake as the large muscles of your arms are prepared to fight. Your palms and feet may become sweaty to give you better grip.

Blood is shunted away from the stomach to the major muscle groups where it will be used during an emergency. This is why people who experience regular stress often have digestive problems, IBS for example: blood is constantly being pumped to areas other than the stomach and digestion is put on hold, the process of moving food through the intestines simply stops, the valves responsible for the movement of food through your system close.

Other changes that occur during a panic attack, or the fight or flight response, are that the pupils dilate to let in more light, so we can gain more information about the situation. You may also feel like vomiting or defecating, which too can be seen to have survival value. If you vomit or defecate then this is the primitive response to ensure you are lighter, enabling you to run from an attacker and making you less appetising as a potential meal!

Remember… all these responses have survival value in the sort of circumstances that they originally evolved for. So why is it that so many of us experience a panic attack in a comparably safe modern environment?

Part 2: Why do we have them?

So why is it that so many of us experience feelings of panic in a comparably safe modern environment? The answer is to be found in our history.

Their Place in the Modern World

Human evolution has taken approximately 135 million years. Modern life can only be said to have existed for the last ten thousand years or so – less than one thousandth of one percent (.001%) of our evolution. This is not nearly long enough for us to adapt. So, in a very real sense, we are stuck in a modern world using ancient tools.

The ‘Trip-wire’

Now this is all very well, but it doesn’t explain why one person has a panic attack while another doesn’t or why we can suddenly just start to have them. For the answer to this question, we must look at the stress levels in our lives. 

Remember – stress is caused by the way we react to a situation. When a person is generally stressed, or anxious, the sensitive ‘trip-wire’ which is the fight or flight response is more easily triggered.

The Unconscious Mind is a Quick Learner

Once a panic attack has happened in a situation, the mind can quickly learn to fear the situation itself. The panic response can be ‘conditioned’ to be triggered by the situation or environment. So, too much  ongoing day-to-day stress can prime this ‘trip-wire’ causing it to go off like a faulty car alarm every time someone walks past it.  We have matched up ‘faulty’ templates in our library and sometimes your Secretary might automatically put your Security Officer in charge before checking the library template first – this is known as taking the “Low Road”.

[This is the same mechanism that causes you to remember old memories when you hear a song, or smell a particular odour, although in this case your Secretary is checking the templates held in the library and this is taking the “High Road”.]

We can slacken our ‘trip-wire’ by making sure that we take enough time to relax every day. We’ve established that a panic attack is a response we all need sometimes. You can see your panic response as a guard whose job it is to protect you from harm. It needs to be there but it also needs to learn to distinguish between threatening and non-threatening situations, between friend and foe.

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De-conditioning

Sometimes, once a person’s unconscious mind has learnt to ‘attach’ panic or anxiety to a certain situation, ‘desensitisation’, or ‘de-conditioning’ needs to take place. Essentially, this means returning the situation or memory to its original state, as non-emotional. This was traditionally done through ‘systematic desensitisation’ where a person is slowly re-introduced to the problem area.

These days, it is possible to de-condition memories, or panic situations, using a guided visualisation technique.  If it is appropriate for your personal situation, l can help you by providing a couple of sessions that I call ‘Rewind and Reframe’ in order to de-condition the panic situations.

Agoraphobia and Panic Attacks

Some people, after having a panic attack, develop a fear of open spaces. This is known as agoraphobia and may appear as fear of being in crowds or busy places or just being outside the home. If we look at this from an evolutionary perspective it makes sense. Thousands of years ago we would have had to be careful of wide open spaces because of the possibility of being attacked by wild animals.

Agoraphobia can also develop as panic attacks ‘spread’ from one situation to another. As we saw above, panic attacks work via the unconscious mind. The unconscious ‘sees’ a pattern that was previously associated with panic, and assumes that it is appropriate to panic again.

Because this ‘template pattern match’ has to be approximate, mistakes can be made. So, for example, a lady I once treated had her first attack on a windy day. Her father had just died and she was already highly stressed due to her mother’s poor health at the time.

At the office the following week she had another attack. She was sitting at her desk, surrounded by people; her unconscious mind decided that this was ‘the same’ as the gale that this was attempting to get through to get home, like all the other people around her at rush-hour, where she had been surrounded by people) and this triggered a second occurrence. It’s not too hard to see how this could continue to spread to other perhaps public transport, supermarkets and more places where there were several people.

Once your panic attacks stop then your mind and body will get the message that the former panic situations are no longer real threats.

Part 3: The Core Beliefs that Fuel Anxiety and Panic Attacks

Although people having panic attacks often feel as if they are the only ones in the world with the problem, the thoughts that accompany panic attacks are usually very similar. Here are the most common ones that we can encounter.

Thought 1: “I might die from a heart attack”

Although it may not feel like it at the time, the heart is designed to react in the way it does during a panic attack. It can feel unnatural because this type of heart activity is usually reserved for vigorous activity, when you don’t notice it as much. However, unless you have a heart condition, it is not usually a threat to the heart. If you are worried about this, see your GP and get tested – if he gives you the all-clear then your heart is okay.

Thought 2: “I might die from suffocation”

It may not feel pleasant, but you are less likely to suffocate during a panic attack than at any other time because you naturally take in more air. 

The shortness of breath you may feel is due to your body increasing its demand for oxygen, or because of hyperventilation or over-breathing, see part 4.

Thought 3: “I’m having a stroke”

When you don’t understand what is happening to you, it’s perfectly natural to try and explain in it terms you understand. 

However, strokes have nothing to do with panic attacks, so you can relax about that! However, if you are worried about it, see your G.P. and get yourself checked – it is possible to assess if you have had a stroke.

Thought 4: “I’m scared of fainting”

Fainting is not an option when being chased by a wild animal, in fact it could be fatal, so it is highly unlikely that panic will cause fainting. 

And what if you did faint? 

How bad would it be? The end of the world? Worse than death itself? Probably not! 

Fear of fainting often comes about due to the sense of dizziness which accompanies hyperventilation, sometimes part of panic. 

Thought 5: “I’m having a nervous breakdown, or going ‘crazy’”

If you were really going insane would you be aware or worried about going insane? When people really break down, they rarely realise and often feel that they are okay and that it is the others who are strange. 

You already know that the anxiety, panic, or ‘fight or flight’ response is a natural mechanism, so this one doesn’t even figure.

Thought 6: “Losing control”

When having an anxiety attack, it can feel like you have lost control. 

In fact, all that has happened is that control has shifted from your conscious to your unconscious mind, so things are still being regulated, just differently.  Your Boss is out to lunch and your Security Officer is taking charge.  Remember, how would a large multi-million company run if the guy on the door who checks visitors in was in charge – would it be as in order as when the MD is up there doing his bit?

Thought 7: “Feeling so weak you can’t move or may fall down”

The feeling of weakness is caused by the shaking we mentioned earlier – surfeit of adrenaline that is not being used, just ‘waiting’ in your muscles waiting for that ‘call to action’. In fact, you are actually stronger when panicking than at any other time as your large muscles are being supplied with plenty of oxygen – it’s why we can hear of these prodigious feats of strength in times of extreme danger or emergency.

Thought 8: “Belief that you’re going to be embarrassed”

How many times have you actually been humiliated or embarrassed by a panic attack? 

If you ever have been, was it really that bad? 

During an attack, it is very common and quite natural to worry that your body can’t take what is happening. The fact is that panic is a short-term response.

The worst part of a panic attack only lasts a few minutes although unpleasant anxiety feelings can persist for longer. It is similar to a fire or emergency drill for the body. If you have panic attacks then at least you know that your anxiety or fight or flight response is in good working order!

Part 4: The symptoms – Hyperventilation or ‘over breathing’

Quite possibly you have already recognised several symptoms that you may well have suffered and now something that often makes panic attacks much worse – hyperventilating or over breathing. It can be counted amongst panic attack symptoms, or amongst causes, as one ‘feeds’ off the other.

About 60% of attacks are accompanied by hyperventilation and most people who experience a panic attack then to over breathe, even whilst relaxed.

The most important thing to understand about hyperventilation is that although it can feel as if you don’t have enough oxygen, the opposite is true. It is a symptom of too much oxygen.

With hyperventilation, your body has too much oxygen. To use this oxygen (to extract it from your blood), your body needs a certain amount of Carbon Dioxide (CO2).

When you hyperventilate, you do not give your body long enough to retain CO2, and so your body cannot use the oxygen you have. This causes you to feel as if you are short of air, when actually you have too much. This is why the following techniques work to get rid of hyperventilation.

Some hyperventilation and panic attack symptoms are:

  • Light headiness 
  • Giddiness 
  • Dizziness 
  • Shortness of breath 
  • Heart palpitations 
  • Numbness 
  • Chest pains 
  • Dry mouth 
  • Clammy hands 
  • Difficulty swallowing 
  • Tremors 
  • Sweating 
  • Weakness 
  • Fatigue

Getting Rid of Hyperventilation

Anybody who hyperventilates will find that symptoms of over excited-ness or panic will occur. So how can learn to breathe more evenly and naturally?

  •     Holding your breath for as long as you comfortably can will prevent the dissipation of carbon dioxide. If you hold your breath for a period of between 10 and 15 seconds and repeat this a few times that will be sufficient to calm hyperventilation quickly. 
  •     This will cause you to re-inhale the carbon dioxide that you exhaled. Naturally there are many times when this would be inappropriate and may appear a little strange. It really helps though. 
  •     Thirdly you can take vigorous exercise while breathing in and out through your nose. A brisk walk or jog whilst breathing through the nose will counter hyperventilation. Regular exercise will decrease general stress levels decreasing the chance of panic attacks. 
  •     If you find that your breathing pattern is irregular or uncomfortable a lot of the time, the best way to ‘reset’ it is by exercising. Start off gradually and check with your doctor if you are not used to exercise.

The 7:3:11 Breathing Pattern – the opposite of hyperventilation

Finally you can practice a special type of breathing, not into your chest but deep into your tummy or diaphragm which is below your chest. 

The important thing here is that the out breath must be longer than the in breath. 

This causes stimulation of the part of your nervous system responsible for relaxation. This is a basic law of biology and if you breathe in this way then your body will have no choice but to relax.

It may take a few minutes but the body will respond regardless of what your mind is thinking. 

Experience this now. 

Sit down and close your eyes for a little while. 

Just become aware of your breathing. 

Breathe in to the count of seven. 

Hold for the count of three.

Now breathe out to the count of eleven. 

And repeat five times.

With practice slow the count until your count is 7 seconds, 3 seconds, 11 seconds.

It may be a little difficult at first, but doing this regularly causes your general anxiety level to come down. You may also find that you begin to breathe this way automatically if you feel anxious. Regular relaxation actually starts to inhibit the production of stress hormones in the body so it actually becomes harder and harder to panic. As you become more generally relaxed the ‘baseline’ of arousal from which you are starting lowers. It actually becomes harder to get stressed!

Hyperventilation responds very well to this technique. If you practice this daily, hyperventilating should cease to be a problem very quickly. It can also give you much more control over panic attacks.

You are hopefully coming to understand that panic attack symptoms are natural physiological reactions. Next, how a panic attack causes the brain to behave in a certain way…

Part 5: The Brain ‘Emotional Hijacking’

When you have a panic attack, or become very anxious your emotional response can actually bypass your ‘thinking brain’. The yellow area in the diagram is the amygdala, which is involved with creating a ‘faster than thought’ panic attack. (The ‘Low Road’). It is very difficult, or impossible, to think clearly when highly emotional because the part of the brain you think with is inhibited.

This is a very primitive part of your brain, designed for survival, rather than problem solving in complex situations. Modern man’s Amygdala is the same size as Cave man’s!

The most common comment from people who have panic attacks is ‘It’s totally irrational’, which is quite right. It’s not the rational part of the brain that deals with panic attacks. This is why people often find it hard to make decisions during a panic attack and why I don’t believe James Bond would think about or even embrace the heroine whilst running from the nuclear explosion…

This response has been termed an ‘emotional hijacking’ by Daniel Goleman, who wrote the best selling book ‘Emotional Intelligence’. By this, he means that your thinking, planning rational mind is hijacked by your emotional response.

The first sign that your panic attacks have gone may be when you notice you can’t have them any more. This is because something fundamental will have changed in the way the mind responds. As you become less stressed and more relaxed so you will regain your control.  When we relax, we are in control and when we relax, we can do the things that we want to do.

Part 6: Other Techniques

Scaling Panic Attacks Down

The first technique is this: if you experience anxious or panicky sensations, you can rate their intensity from 1 to 10, full-blown panic being 10 and deep relaxation being 1. 

So, for example, if you are in a situation and begin to feel uneasy you could say to yourself ‘I am now at a scale 5’. If you began to feel worse you might say inwardly ‘I am now at a scale 6’. As you begin to feel better, you can count yourself back down to a 2 or a 1.

By scaling anxiety attacks in this way, you are doing three things.

  •     You are ‘putting a fence’ around the experience so the limits are clear. After all, it’s impossible for panic to go up indefinitely. It has to level off. 
  •   You are using the thinking part of the brain. In order to stop and think about where you are on a scale of anxiety you have to use your Boss; the part which is not so concerned with emotion but more with thinking.
  •     For the time it takes for you to grade the panic you are less ‘in’ the panic attack and more outside it. Rather like being an observer. This dilutes the emotional content. 
  •     You can begin to get some better data on how long the anxiety attack lasts, how intense it is etc. This gives you more control. Although it can feel that panic attacks go on for ever, they can actually only continue for short periods – they are short-term survival responses.

The simple rule is that by giving the thinking brain a task we diminish the experience of unpleasant emotion. 

It’s good to use a pen and paper to scale anxiety because then you can see how things are improving. It also gives you something to do during an anxiety attack although people sometimes find it a little difficult to write as the brain is concentrating on larger movements at these times, rather than fine ones.

Be AWARE of Panic Attacks

The next technique with which I would like to arm you is the AWARE technique. 

So the ‘A’ in aware stands for ‘Accept the anxiety. Decide just to go with the experience. Fighting anxiety, getting angry or scared just fuels the fire. After reading these notes, you know a panic attack is a perfectly natural response, so although it can be frustrating, there is nothing to be afraid of.

The ‘W’ in aware is for ‘Watch the anxiety’ Observe it without judging it to be good or bad. Remember – you are more than just your anxiety.

The next ‘A’ in ‘aware is for ‘Act normal’. Behave normally and continue doing what you intended to do. Breathe normally focusing on extending the out breath (se 7:11 breathing). If you run from the situation your immediate anxiety will of course decrease but this may lead to an increase in future anxiety.

Staying in the situation helps ‘de-condition’ the panic response as your mind gets the message that it is not really threatening. This is why people often say that the first few minutes of public speaking are the worst. If you continue for longer than a few minutes then the mind gets the message that it’s not really that threatening.

The ‘R’ in ‘aware’ is for ‘Repeat the steps’. Continue accepting your anxiety, watching it and acting normal until it goes down to a comfortable level.

And finally the ‘E’ in ‘aware’ is for ‘Expect the best’. What you fear may never happen. You will surprise yourself by the effective way you handle situations when using the ‘AWARE’ technique.

Of course, getting rid of all anxiety is not desirable, or even possible, but getting rid of panic attacks is.

The next step in getting rid of panic or anxiety attacks for good is to re-educate the unconscious mind so that it understands that the situations that currently trigger your panic attacks are not actually dangerous. We can do this using simple and effective techniques within the consultation room.

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Overcome Fear of flying

Nervous or have a fear of flying? You aren’t alone.

It’s a significant issue for many of us and so this blog is all about how we can help you overcome the fear. Our dreams of jetting away on a sun drenched holiday quickly come around year by year. But whilst for most of us this brings a sense of excitement for others it may well bring anxiety. Flying, and more specifically flying away for the annual summer holidays.  Yes, we may well be told that flying is one of the safest ways of travelling, but for many it’s an anxiety inducing experience. Thankfully, there are simple steps that we can take to make it a little more of a relaxing experience.

Get to know the plane.

Find a picture of the plane off the internet and try and familiarise yourself with it.  You can stick the image on the fridge door so you are repeatedly reminded of it – the more familiar the environment will be when you do travel.

At the Airport.

Airports are naturally a very busy and somewhat disconcerting to the unseasoned traveller. My local one is Newquay Airport, and for those of us who live in Cornwall, provides a more ‘homely’ experience. Leave yourself plenty of time to get there, and try and find a quiet corner to relax. All the time thinking how your holiday destination will be when you get there. The weather, surroundings make it really vivid in your mind.

Caffeinated soft drinks could make you feel more anxious so opt for a herbal tea or water to help you feel refreshed and relaxed.

On the plane.

Many of us feel a little claustrophobic on aircraft, so have you thought about opting for an aisle seat? This will allow for you to move about more easily, and not feel so ‘trapped’.

Relaxing music can help calm you down. I can recommend noise cancelling headphones to help drown out any sounds from the engines too.

Do you have a favourite book?  Bring it with you, to help take your mind off the flight.

Many people end up turning to a hypnotherapist to help them overcome a fear of flying.  If you feel you could benefit from a little extra help, read on..

As a hypnotherapist, I will help you reduce the anxiety associated with flying.  Clearly, flying isn’t a natural thing for us humans to do.  Hence, our subconscious which is there to protect us, may then create the anxiety as it believes it’s protecting us.  The fear of flying can affect anyone, and is not a sign of weakness.  Now the good news is that there are techniques we can use that will naturally help control the fear.  This is achieved through the use of hypnosis and other psychotherapeutic methods.

Don’t let your fears get in the way of living the life and dreams you have, book in today and make your first step towards achieving your goals. Kick that fear of flying out the window today!